Since the beginning I’ve had my feelings about this Elmer’s Glue ass relationship between rapper, Big Sean and “Glee” star, Naya Rivera. I thought it was a mess–Big Sean’s attempt to follow in big brother, Yeezy’s footsteps–to perpetuate the stereotype that black men seek non-black women when they get “on.” Why? Because they think these non-black women are better than them, and therefore make them better.
Well…Looks like Naya got tired of wading in negro waters and took her talents back across 8-mile. She recently married actor and close friend, Ryan Dorsey, and had no shame about releasing some more intimate wedding day photos.
Big Sean probably feels like an idiot. Now, no one knows why they ended their engagement. Hell, he could have cheated on her with her own sister. Yet I find it hard to justify such a fly by night wedding with a “close friend.” Big Sean spent his whole allowance on her engagement ring–she ought to be ashamed.
What’s more funny is, how Naya was carrying on during her relationship with Sean. Making diss tracks about his ex, going to interviews with him and acting like down ass foreign chick that every black man dreams of having.
Dear Black Men:
These non-black women that you crave so much–you know, the one’s that look, act smell and are better than the black women that actually want you, evaluate their actual desire for you. Just as you think their better than you and your black women–They also think that they’re better. By no fault of their own–it’s your fault that they subconsciously live on a pedestal. I’m not talking about general white privilege. I’m talking about the whole black man’s concept of the foreign/non-black trophy wife and their desire for these women for no other reason other than physical attraction. Then when that woman realizes that you think this highly of her, she thinks that highly of herself and therefore moves on to someone she feels can upgrade her. Maybe if you placed such importance on the black women that actually want, desire and value you and your potential–there will be an even balance of you two upgrading each other.